Ask what helps now - hear them out - offer a walk, food, or help to book care....

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Ask what helps now - hear them out - offer a walk, food, or help to book care. Say I can sit with you while you call. Set kind limits. You can care and rest. Check in soon. Trust may take more than one talk. Keep showing up - do not fix it all.